That’s right…….I did it. No more 9-5 (well it was 7:30-4:30 for me)!!
My posts have been very lacking, as in 7 months between posts but I have been doing a lot of soul searching. Deciding on what was important to me, where I WANT my priorities to be and what my life would look like in the most ideal situation.
I sat and thought about exactly how I would want to live my life, had I the resources and guts to do so. I found I wanted to be home with my kids, I wanted to live with little stress, I wanted to make a little passive income to help our family and I wanted to practice more sustainable living options.
Outcome…..I did it. I told my office job I wasn’t coming back and I started my own home daycare. I have taken on a few other children that join us everyday to play, roam nature and have a safe place to stay while their parents are at work. It’s fun, challenging and much more fulfilling than I thought. It has created the perfect balance in my life and I am at utter peace with how my life feels.
You CAN do it too! Set your intentions, work towards that, figure out all the little details to create what you want even if it is just a temporary situation and do it. Probably won’t be simple, you will probably lose sleep over it but if it is truly what you want you got this.
Up next…….our Urban Hen Adventure!!
I have been reading a lot of blogs and articles about minimalism and how consumerism is effecting people in first world countries. The more I hear about it, the more I go “holy crap their right, this is getting out of hand!”.
I live in an area that has a lot of wealth due to the oil sands and most people judge each others worth by their possessions and how much money they make. I often see Mom’s pull up somewhere in their giant SUV’s, get out in their designer clothing, their kids are perfectly styled and look like models from a GAP kids commercial, whips out a stroller that cost more than a trip to Mexico and I think “damn, what am I doing wrong?”
The truth and reality is we are ALL effected by consumerism, it is friggen everywhere. “If you get this stuff you will feel better about yourself and people will like you more”. It is in the big box stores that I frequent, on TV, in your celebrity magazines etc. it ridiculous. I bet if I met that fancy Mom I previously described we wouldn’t have anywhere near the same interests and in all honestly she probably wouldn’t give me the time of day, she would look me up and down and judge my Joe Fresh clothing and my kids wearing hand me downs and think she can’t be seen talking to me.
My goal is to simplify and slow down life as much as possible for a family of four. Much of the minimalism blogs I read is a 30-40 year old single person living in 250 square feet, they have the ability to keep things pretty minimal, I bet I could too. But that just isn’t going to work for us, we have two young boys with lots of energy, I am an introvert and need my alone time, and we have two big dogs so I would lose my mind in 250 square feet. I think we have narrowed down our solution is to have some land. Smaller inside, more outside. I have already significantly downsized my wardrobe which was VERY liberating, I highly recommend it to everyone! (I will post my process for this soon).
I guess there are so many ways that we can all simplify what we have and consume to things we really need and love. Live in a house the right size, plan your meals, organize, make instead of buy etc.
I will be periodically posting my journey with this and hope you will follow along and share your thoughts and even your processes to living slower, simpler and with more intent.